Well, we have finally done it. We made the commitment to switch the babies from a 5 bottle/2 meal + 2 snack schedule to a 4 bottle/3 meal + 1 snack schedule. Now I know this may not be earth shattering news but it took me quite awhile to figure out how it was all going to work out. I had a feeling they were getting ready for a change - but I was nervous going from 3 naps to 2. And selfishly, mostly because I dug their long nap from 2:30-4pm every afternoon because it seemed it was the only time I could shut everything down and maybe nap a little while myself.
But after their mid day nap kept growing shorter and shorter, and Quinn was really only taking 3 out of her 5 bottles anyway, we decided to make the change.
So far, so good. I have been most concerned about Ryan and his naptimes - that boy can sleep! He goes from 7:30-6:45 almost every night and still enjoyed his 3 naps. The first or second night we made the change, he fell asleep right during his dinner solid feeding. I mean, flat out GONE.
Matt looked at me and was like "is he faking it?". And I looked over and he had a combo of drool and sweet potatoes running out of his mouth and no, I was pretty sure he was not "faking it".
Ever since then, he seems to have adjusted well. And I am loving the fact that I have 2 less bottles a day, even though it means a full solid meal added. Quinn really seems to be enjoying those - and in fact, I am pretty sure she is striking bottles just so she can eat the "good stuff". Oh, well. There is only so much I can stress about with her eating -- and I figure if she is eating 3 solid meals a day plus a full yogurt snack and crackers and at least 3 good bottles a day -- what else can we do?
(At least I am telling myself that as I write this. The true test will be at her weigh-in 3 weeks from now.)
So our schedule now:
6:45 - 7:00am: Babies 1st bottles
7:45am - Solid breakfast (cereal or oatmeal with butter, yogurt & fruit, plus as many cheerios as they can stuff in their mouths or hide in the pocket of their bibs)
7:45am - 8:45am: Playtime and mommy clean up time and mommy breakfast time
8:45-10:30am: 1st nap (and mommy shower)
10:30am: Babies 2nd bottles
11:30am: Solid lunch (cereal/oatmeal, fruit, veggie, fruit pieces and crackers)
11:45am - 1:00pm: Playtime, mommy lunchtime
1:00pm - 2:30pm: Babies' 2nd naptime
2:30-2:45pm: Babies 3rd bottle
3:15pm - Snacktime! (usually yogurt for Q and fruit for Ryan)
3:15-5:30pm - Playtime and praytime for Daddy's arrival home :)
5:30pm - Solid dinner (cereal/oatmeal, veggie, fruit, crackers -- we had started on meats but Q was doing so hot with them and seemed to have a fairly vicioius gag reflex to them so to maintain calories, we are stopping for a week and will reintroduce)
6:00pm - Daddy does bathtime & mommy starts dinner and has a cocktail (this has remained consistent, thank God)
7:15pm - Ryan bottle
7:30pm - Quinn bottle (hopefully - sometimes she fights it, so we eat dinner and come back to her at 8pm and try again)
8:15pm - Both babies in bed sleeping soundly and Mommy & Daddy RELAX.
So you can see, from just one short month ago - things have changed a lot. And when I say I poured over this schedule and prayed over and over again that it would work, that would not be an exaggeration. And the darn thing is, I know as soon as this is old hat, we will be changing again. :) Such is life with 9 1/2 month olds I suppose.
I am glad that it all seems to be going well, even with the unnecessary added excitement of my surgery- and a probably ill fated decision to venture down to the Rodeo on Saturday with kids in tow and an exhausted mom - but hey, it was free - and we all held up. Except for me, who promptly took a 3 hour nap upon our return to leave my husband to do the twin's dinner, bottles and order in dinner for us. I am WIFE OF THE YEAR.
So if you made it through that terribly exciting post (which unless you are a hardcore Clanahan blog reader, you gave up a long time ago), I leave you with a few recent pics of the babes. Most of them in their pjs because I didn't have enough energy to change them last week and they seemed cozy. (Except for the rodeo outfits because you can't wear PJ's to the Rodeo - gasp!)
Road trip to Austin! |
Heading out |
The car packed for 1 day and night in Austin. Geez. |
The paci stealer - now one isn't enough. We must steal two. |
Must play with the same toy. This is the daily favorite. |
Quinn just looks mad that I interrupted her playtime for picture time. |
My crawling fools. There is no stopping them. |
Quinn takes a rare moment to smile for the camera. |
When I see pics like this, it's no wonder that the child can't eat more - look at those chub cheeks! |
If you look closely, you can see remnants of the cold/runny noses that Ryan, Quinn, and I have been passing back and forth for the last 3 weeks. |
Quinn pulls herself all the way up now on EVERYTHING. Ryan is not happy with this new trick. |
Recovering after his brief meltdown. I think he was just tired. |
Babyproofing at it's best. |
What did I do, Mommy? |
The only family pic from the rodeo. Mom was off her camera game on Saturday. |
See? Same toy, all the time. But at least this day they were sharing the space and the toy instead of trying to shove the other away. Baby steps :) |
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